Aspiration is good, but what you aspire to be, makes all the difference. and that is the choice you have to make. what you base that choice on is the big question. there are no real universal guidelines that can be adhered to. Going by example too is a problem, when choosing a model to follow. And then too, the big question is, why follow? Who set them as the saint?
The only real path out is to follow intuition. The real desire of our soul. For that is the only thing that we are answerable to. That is what we were born with, and that is what we will die with.
Problems arise, when we are unsure of what our soul tells us. A problem that is a consequence of ignoring the soul for too long. Just like a book, that if untouched for long gathers dust and may even damage the book, similarly our soul too requires regular listening too.
And no matter how much dust their might be, you need to go and wipe it, for it may be difficult, but it aint impossible.
